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So what’s been happening in the Sanders’ hood?

Flip I’m craving concrete. The smell of it. Haven’t ever tasted it but I’m sure that must be nice too.

Let’s start with this tummy of mine. My belly button couldn’t stick its neck out anymore if it tried. Shame, poor thing, it’s got nowhere to go. I’m walking like a real pregnant lady, the swaddle, the slightly arched back, the short steps. Then there’s that “eeeh” sound when I try and sit down onto the couch and the “mmmph” sound when I try and get up again. It’s pathetic.

Sometimes Jeremy makes these noises too….confusing..and weird at the same time.

We both had a month off work over December and besides entertaining the Tominator every day, we’ve been nesting and getting ready for the arrival of  Tominator 2 or Tammynator 1.

Jems been doing man-nesting stuff like finding things to make which require the purchase of a new power tool. I’ve been doing pregnant-women-nesting things like sorting out the sock drawer and console drawer and just any drawer really. Nesting does that to you, its not just about getting baby things together it’s about sorting. It’s that uncontrollable urge to put all keys into a tin just for keys and spare keyrings into a tin just for spare keyrings. It’s the urge to throw out kitsch-smelling shower gels and clean out the spice drawer. All very urgent, very important tasks. In fact it almost verges on OCD and at times feels worthy of medication, especially considering the degree of joy all the sorting does for me… The good news is that once the baby is out, the sorting urge subsides quite significantly and thereafter you couldn’t really care if spare keyrings have a home or not.
Less than 3 weeks to go. We’re in countdown mode and I’m ready to puuuush! Like a serene, calm and confident angel that is

P.S Have you had a look at my Etsy shop? – yes I started an Etsy shop as part of Limelight and it’s doing way better than I ever expected…it sells digital paper and clipart sets – take a look -

http://www.etsy.com/shop/SunshineLemons?ref=si_shop

P.P.S Did I mention I discovered Pinterest? It’s in the leagues of Etsy. It’s a visual pinboard of ideas… this is my page – http://pinterest.com/limelight/

P.P.P.S Thomas is a-talking! His little 15-month old world consists of these big words:

Ball

Door

Mamma

Dada

Gogo

All gone

Gone

Up

Down

On

Off

Tata

Deh (as in there)

Mah (as in meow)

Hoohoooohoo (as in what does the Dog say Tom?)

Owa (as in flower)

Noo-Nooo-Nooo (as in no)

Oh-no-no-no-no (as in no I don’t think so buddy)

Baba

Toodles until next time…the Nesquick is calling me.

We celebrated the Tominator’s first birthday with a monster party last weekend.

The little sausage’s first birthday party.

Before we had kids, Jem and I thought first birthday parties were a bit weird…like does the kid even know it’s having a party? Why the big hoo-haa-raa?

Then we had a kid.

And received our rose-tinted glasses and got all mushy and gooey and gagga about anything baby and baba.

If you don’t have kids, it’s kind of like you carry this baby for 9 months, prepare for its grand arrival, push it out, breastfeed it, change nappies, care for it and nurture it so that it actually grows and reaches milestones, bond with it and laugh with it…and then you finally reach 12 months and you think hell YES it IS time to celebrate this wonderful year of life and we ARE gonna have a PARTY and crack open a bottle of cheap and cheerful JC. And he will know it’s his party….when he’s old enough to read this post! Sorted.

So that brings me to his little monster birthday bash…here it is in pictures…

Beware of the Little Monsters…

Helium balloons – an absolute must – they are still providing the ‘Nator with entertainment one week later..

The Tominator obviously mistaking the tablecloth for a curtain. Bless.

There were all kinds of monsters at his party…this googley eyed monster…

Also known as the Cookie Monster..

This little Grassy head monster, who doesn’t look so scary here….

But here he commands a bit more Boo! factor with his one and two-eyed monster friends beside him.

You’re scared, I know.

I’m-watching-you monster…

The big-mouthed serviette monsters…

The high-on-food-colourant-bulging-eye monsters.
These ones are kinda scary for me, how about you? I wasn’t sure to serve them or not.
But I did.

The Thank-Boo monsters…

The Cake Monster…

The Mini-Me Cake Monsters

Our little monster…

And some of his beautiful monster (girl)friends…

And one boy monster friend! Thank-you Daevin!


Even a littly blue-eyed baba girl monster made an appearance…

Granny says, before birthday cake….we must taste milk tart!

The most precious moment of the day…when Tom notices everyone is singing Happy Birthday to him and he is the main monstertjie! It melted mamma and pappas heart…into whatever hearts get melted into…still gooey as ever.

Thank-you for coming and sharing the afternoon with us, it’s always heartwarming to spend moments like these with friends and family. xx

I’m welcoming 30 into my life tomorrow. This is kind of like a big deal. I never ever thought I would turn thirty, just like I really don’t believe I’ll ever turn 40. Only other people turn 40, right? So I thought since I’m saying toodles to my twenties, I should probably reflect on some highlights over the past ten years. Goodness, here I go.

1. I met the man of my dreams, Jeremy. This kind of includes my late teen years but he’s shared all my twenties with me, and that’s what really matters. He’s seen me through all of this…

2. I can’t really remember turning 20 but 21 I definitely remember. I didn’t have a party or anything, I just opened presents in the lounge and cried with laughter when mom presented me with a letter I had written to Santa when I was little.  I told him that I had been good and that I needed a lot of “stuff” for my room. Classic.

(opening pressies on the morning of my 21st with my family and Jem)

3. I got my degree in Dietetics from PMB. Man I loved that course. Thought I’d be a dietician but things just didn’t turn out that way.

4. My mom was probably bummed that I didn’t use my degree but she was so cool about it she just wanted me to be happy. I hope I can be that wise with my own kids one day.

5. I worked in the UK for 8 weeks over my varsity holiday. The only thing missing from the experience was Jem.

6. a.)Met one of my best friends, Amanda, at varsity.  She influenced me in so many ways and is the reason I’m doing what I do now, creative work. Thank-you Mands! Xxx

we spent a weekend at the buddhist retreat centre – Mands trying to be serious

6.b) I met a lot of beautiful friends in my twenties…Gina being one of them…

(one of our more mature moments)

7. I started a business in 2005, I had just turned 25.  It’ll be 6 years later this year.

8. I did a couple of dusi’s, started mountain biking, we built a house and got two cats. (Friendly Frank and Gorgeous George)

9. I got married to the most beautiful boy on earth…it was such a simple yet intimate wedding. *happy sigh*

10. I did the Cape Epic with my hubby.

11. And trained my butt off for it. It was special. The doing it with my hubby part, not the butt part.

12. I’ve travelled to Austria, Germany, France, Switzerland, London, Spain, New Zealand, Scotland, Mauritius and Zanzibar. I learnt to ski, go off-piste and shriek at the same time. I also got to watch my beautiful friend Gina go down a black slope backwards. #priceless

13. I became an aunty to my sister’s little boy David. She pushed him out natural with no help from Mister Epidural. Respect!

14. I’ve heli-biked, motorbiked, slept next to rivers and under the stars, rafted and ziplined, been zapped by electric fences and bathed in mud.

15. I’ve also been to a lot of spas.

16. I discovered Etsy.com (as did my Visa)

17. I wore glasses in my early twenties but then saw the light and pretty much everything else when I went for the Lasik eye op.

(blocking out recurring Christmas tunes on the aeroplane)

18. I started this blog, Phuthu, initially as a place to boast about our beautiful country…but then it underwent a facelift and is now our little family blog.

19. I learnt the meaning of ISO, aperture, depth of field and exposure. The superjerm taught me.

20. We had a beautiful baby boy, Thomas (sometimes called the Tominator or nator for short.) This boy has brought us so much joy. He’s 10 months already.

21. Hang in there…I’ve got 8 more points to go.

22. I did a marathon when I was 28. We were training for the Comrades but that got put on the backburner when I discovered I was pregnant. Jeremy fell pregnant at the same time and he didn’t do the Comrades either.

23. I did a meditation course and tried out yoga and pilates. Yuh. And that was that.

24. Learnt French. Am still trying to learn French.

25. I’ve watched my brother turn into an incredible man, my sister into an incredible woman and mother.

26. I’ve seen my dad take up a new hobby of making knives and my mom kick ass at bowls.

27. I’ve made a lot of cupcakes. And eaten them. *gives sheepish grin*

28. I’ve driven with my handbrake on, said silly things and done things which I wish I could have control-ALT deleted. All in all, my twenties have been good to me – actually they’ve been amazing, I’ve been incredibly fortunate to have experienced so much..

29. Tomorrow, on my thirtieth birthday I’ll be 16 ½ weeks pregnant with my second baby.  The best birthday present of all. Here’s to me and you, thirty.

Is walk. Such a simple thing but when you have the most amazing trails just 2 km down the road, it just makes so much sense…it’s good exercise for my ITG (inner thigh gap) which is slowly but surely narrowing, it’s fresh air for the Tominator and it’s core training for dad – the perfect outing for the familia.

It’s steep in places, like lactic-acid-burn-steep.

..me catch my breath halfway up stairs and take photo…can’t talk so much.

The viewpoint overlooking Kloof Gorge…

The Nator seems to be having a word with his papa. Maybe something like move away from the edge now before mama has a heart attack!!!!

Spectacular though isn’t it?

A rare sighting, the whole family in front of the lens!

I know you’ll be wowed by that seriously imaginative title “news and stuff”…pretty snappy I know.

Can’t believe I haven’t posted in over a month! That’s shocking really, and in fact I’m punishing myself right now by devouring a black forest cupcake as I write this with one finger.

News:

Our baba is crawling like a professional, I’m telling you it’s impressive. No teeth though.

He’s more interactive and trying to pull himself up. Note to self: take extra mattress out of cot asap.

He LOVES his daddy.

Usually he likes his veggies, just not when this picture was taken.

He still won’t sleep at night. Sob sob sob. Sob. But I know he will get there. I just know it. Of course he will. He will. Definitely. Right?

And most of you know that I’m pregnant again. It’s a 16 month gap. Yikes but we’re stoked. Everyone asks, was it planned? Tis the number one question.

My answer? The best things in life aren’t always planned.

Had my first appointment with superwoman Dr. Candice Roberts yesterday and the little heartbeat was racing along. Little nunu pie.

Due date 18th Feb.

Cravings have been on the increase. I had McDonald’s the other day…(don’t judge me!) the plastic burger, processed chips and K-way drink all tasted so so SO good.

The chicken and mushroom pie after that was almost just as good. And now I’m craving curry and then pancakes, in that order.

Jem posted this one to Facebook and everyone said it was their favourite…it’s one of my favourites too. The look on Tom’s face is just too munchkin for words.